Your expectations and preconceived notions are distancing you from joyful relationships.
Trying to control your friends and loved ones or change them to suit your ideals and expectations will only create further distance between you. Relinquish your need to criticize, judge, and demand things be done your way. You are being too hard on those you love.
Strong relationships are built with loving support, tolerance, and compromise. Instead of consistently blaming your friends and family, reflect on your in your relationship breakdown. Be more forgiving, compassionate, and open-minded in your approach. You will find your unsupportive relationships will become more balanced and face less resistance.