Everyone has their own unique journey to walk, and their choices should be respected.
Judgment is an emotional reaction used to determine contrast; through contrast we define our preferences. But when your judgment has the intention to lower someone else’s experience, you are essentially seeking self-validation at the expense of others.
Your judgmental ways are not only hurtful but transparent and detrimental to your cause. Making other people look inferior or less deserving is vindictive, and this behavior will reflect back to you in some way to showcase the error of your ways. Everyone has their own unique journey to walk, and their choices should be respected.