You are projecting aspects of your old relationships onto your new ones.
Through comparisons, unrealistic expectations, and fear-fueled assumptions, you are setting your current relationships up to fail. What you had can never be again, so comparisons will always disappoint, and expectations will always fall short.
Your relationships will always reflect who you believe yourself to be. You are no longer the same person. Instead of thinking that you will never experience that level of love again, reframe your expectations by being open to the possibility that a future relationship could exceed anything you have ever experienced. It’s time to leave the past where it belongs.