Your fears, doubts, and inhibitions are influencing the people around you.
Projecting your trepidations onto others not only hinders their development but also reinforces your limiting beliefs. Tough love is required so that they may confidently walk their journey of expansion and self-discovery.
Each of us have stepped forward to participate in an Earthly experience to expand and recognize our greatness. If you shield your friends and loved ones from experiencing emotional hardships, they will not recognize the contrasts these experiences provide. Contrast allows us to determine what we prefer and to actively create what we believe we deserve. Allow people to learn through experience and be there to support them when necessary.