Relationship Deck - Danielle Maylyn https://daniellemaylyn.com Mon, 06 Feb 2023 10:32:41 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 https://daniellemaylyn.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/dm_logo-01-100x100.webp Relationship Deck - Danielle Maylyn https://daniellemaylyn.com 32 32 224377232 OBSERVE https://daniellemaylyn.com/deck/observe/ Mon, 06 Feb 2023 10:32:21 +0000 https://daniellemaylyn.com/?post_type=deck&p=5611 Clarity and greater insight will emerge when you take time to observe your relationships with transparency. When you step through[...]

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Clarity and greater insight will emerge when you take time to observe your relationships with transparency.

When you step through the emotionally created veil of illusion, you become more aware of the inner workings of your relationships. You will recognize the influencing factors from a different perspective, allowing you to make choices that support and reflect your core principles.

Observing your relationships from an external perspective allows you to see your surrounding circumstances and interactions more truthfully. You will recognize previously unidentified patterns, limitations, and resistance within your relationships. Contemplate what elements require change and which aspects need further nourishment. Be prepared as the truth may be confronting. 

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DISTRACTIONS https://daniellemaylyn.com/deck/distractions/ Sun, 05 Feb 2023 22:40:34 +0000 https://daniellemaylyn.com/?post_type=deck&p=5416 You are using distraction as a means of avoidance. Instead of openly dealing with your emotions you have allowed them[...]

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You are using distraction as a means of avoidance.

Instead of openly dealing with your emotions you have allowed them to escalate unnecessarily. Built-up emotions have caused contention within your relationship, yet you continue to immerse your energy into other relationships, projects, and activities to avoid conflict and disharmony. 

Eventually, you will have to address the core issues and heal your raw emotions. By confronting your grievances as they arise, you will limit resentment and avoid unnecessary animosity. Avoidance through distraction has become a pattern – a protective technique to shield you from confrontation. This heart code is encouraging you to break the repetitive cycle by resolving disagreements and processing your emotions without delay.

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ATTITUDE https://daniellemaylyn.com/deck/attitude/ Sun, 05 Feb 2023 22:38:09 +0000 https://daniellemaylyn.com/?post_type=deck&p=5413 Your demanding and uncooperative behavior is straining your closest relationships. The people you care about are struggling to tolerate your[...]

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Your demanding and uncooperative behavior is straining your closest relationships.

The people you care about are struggling to tolerate your obstinate attitude. You have been somewhat unreasonable in recent times and your attitude is beginning to wear thin. Instead of dealing with your frustrations and overspent emotions, you have taken them out on those around you.

The people you are interacting with feel you are constantly being difficult, demanding, and ‘over the top’. You need to adjust the way you communicate and stop reacting so defensively. You have people that genuinely want to help you, that want to be there for you, but you are pushing them away with your irrational behavior.

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SAFEGUARD https://daniellemaylyn.com/deck/safeguard/ Sun, 05 Feb 2023 22:36:32 +0000 https://daniellemaylyn.com/?post_type=deck&p=5410 Your fears, doubts, and inhibitions are influencing the people around you. Projecting your trepidations onto others not only hinders their[...]

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Your fears, doubts, and inhibitions are influencing the people around you.

Projecting your trepidations onto others not only hinders their development but also reinforces your limiting beliefs. Tough love is required so that they may confidently walk their journey of expansion and self-discovery.

Each of us have stepped forward to participate in an Earthly experience to expand and recognize our greatness. If you shield your friends and loved ones from experiencing emotional hardships, they will not recognize the contrasts these experiences provide. Contrast allows us to determine what we prefer and to actively create what we believe we deserve. Allow people to learn through experience and be there to support them when necessary.

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LETTING GO https://daniellemaylyn.com/deck/letting-go/ Sun, 05 Feb 2023 22:34:33 +0000 https://daniellemaylyn.com/?post_type=deck&p=5407 In order to welcome the new, you must free yourself of the past. Relationships from your past are preventing you[...]

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In order to welcome the new, you must free yourself of the past.

Relationships from your past are preventing you from moving forward. It is time to find closure, heal old emotional wounds, and address your fears for the future. Holding onto the past creates stagnation and blocks you from embracing future supportive relationships.

You must take the time to reflect on your experiences to find self-acceptance and free yourself of any limiting self-beliefs. Punishing yourself with blame, guilt, and regret will only hinder your transformation. Do not shut yourself off from the world because you fear past cycles may repeat. Step through your fears, be open to change, and stop living in the past. 

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ASSERTIVE https://daniellemaylyn.com/deck/assertive/ Sun, 05 Feb 2023 22:33:50 +0000 https://daniellemaylyn.com/?post_type=deck&p=5404 You need to be more assertive; your voice is being lost among the noise. Your opinions are valid, and your[...]

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You need to be more assertive; your voice is being lost among the noise.

Your opinions are valid, and your suggestions are calling to be heard. No longer can you stand voiceless in the shadows. Speak up and express yourself with sincerity and integrity. 

Your friends and loved ones are governing your decisions because you are not speaking your mind. Step out of your comfort zone and insist on being heard. Push back against the dominating personalities that surround you and start making decisions that benefit you. You have remained quiet for too long and this heart code is urging you to take responsibility for your life and decide which direction to embrace.

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JEALOUSY https://daniellemaylyn.com/deck/jealousy/ Sun, 05 Feb 2023 22:32:58 +0000 https://daniellemaylyn.com/?post_type=deck&p=5401 Your insecurities have shifted your attention externally and you are focusing on lack and negativity. Qualities that you feel you[...]

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Your insecurities have shifted your attention externally and you are focusing on lack and negativity.

Qualities that you feel you do not possess are being reflected within your relationships. Your envy is simply an indicator that you do not feel good enough. It is distracting you from the inner healing you require.

This heart code is encouraging you to contemplate what aspect of that person or relationship is conjuring up these emotions. That is the aspect of yourself that needs further love, healing, and acceptance. Once you recognize the seed of the reflection, you will be able to nurture and nourish the part of your soul that feels insecure, unworthy, and fearful. 

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CONSEQUENCES https://daniellemaylyn.com/deck/consequences/ Sun, 05 Feb 2023 22:32:29 +0000 https://daniellemaylyn.com/?post_type=deck&p=5398 Decisions made in malice will bare hefty consequences. Vindictive words, intentions, and actions will cause significant and unnecessary challenges. Think[...]

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Decisions made in malice will bare hefty consequences.

Vindictive words, intentions, and actions will cause significant and unnecessary challenges. Think carefully before reacting or you may end up paying the price. Retaliating out of spite only provides temporary gratification and often leads to relationship breakdowns and emotional turmoil. 

When provoked, step through your emotions and give yourself time to put things into perspective. This will provide the space necessary to see your situation with greater clarity. Plotting vengeful reactions in haste will only lead to repercussions and regret. If you have already retaliated, bear the consequences, apologize for your behavior, and learn from the experience. Continuing to manipulate the situation will only intensify the drama.

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REACH OUT https://daniellemaylyn.com/deck/reach-out/ Sun, 05 Feb 2023 22:31:52 +0000 https://daniellemaylyn.com/?post_type=deck&p=5395 A nearby smile hides a deluge of sorrow, misery, and heartache. Someone you care about is suffering in silence behind[...]

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A nearby smile hides a deluge of sorrow, misery, and heartache.

Someone you care about is suffering in silence behind a seemingly robust facade. The pain may be hidden well but cannot be ignored. Although they may downplay their circumstances, their grief has become overwhelming. 

Never assume a tough exterior is invulnerable. Reach out a hand of support, offer a listening ear, and be available in this person’s time of need. Break their isolation with compassion, sincerity, and companionship. It is easy to become self-absorbed, but don’t let life distract you from what is important. Heavy burdens can quickly lead to despair and self-disparagement. Be a beacon of light and help them recognize their innate greatness.

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LISTEN https://daniellemaylyn.com/deck/listen/ Sun, 05 Feb 2023 22:30:20 +0000 https://daniellemaylyn.com/?post_type=deck&p=5392 The answers you seek will be found in the words around you. When you stop wanting to be heard and[...]

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The answers you seek will be found in the words around you.

When you stop wanting to be heard and start listening to your surroundings, the answers will become apparent. We often feel the need to fill in the awkward silence with unnecessary chatter. It is in those moments, however, that you gain the greatest insight. 

Allow your friends and loved ones to share their thoughts and opinions. Listen closely and they will reveal the source of your current challenges. Their perspectives will offer insight and guidance, allowing you to strengthen your relations and avoid misunderstandings. Listening is a powerful life skill; once mastered you will begin to see words with clarity and transparency.

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